Jane Fondais getting candid about motherhood.
The legendary actress, 85, has admitted she wasn’t the mom she wished she had been to her three children in a new interview with CNN’sChris Wallace.
Fonda — who is mom to daughters Mary Williams, 55, and Vanessa Vadim, 54, plus sonTroy Garity, 49 — said, “I was not the kind of mother that I wished that I had been to my children. I have great, great children — talented, smart. And I just didn’t know how to do it.”
Jane Fonda.Phillip Faraone/Getty Images
“I’ve studied parenting, and I know what it’s supposed to be now. I didn’t know then. So I’m trying to show up now,” added the80 for Bradystar in the interview, which aired February 19 on CNN.
Fonda shares actor Troy with her late second husband Tom Hayden. The pair also adopted now-social activist and author Mary, who released a memoir calledThe Lost Daughterin 2013 about her upbringing. Fonda shares Vanessa with her late first husband, screenwriter and producer Roger Vadim.
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Jane Fonda with daughter Vanessa Vadim and son Troy Garity.Kevin Mazur/WireImage
Elsewhere in her appearance onWho’s Talking to Chris Wallace, Fonda also discussed her sometimes difficult relationship with her own fatherHenry Fonda.
TheGrace and Frankiealum revealed that she saw her dad “break down and weep” for the first time during one of their final moments together before his death in 1982 at the age of 77.
“Before he died I was able to tell himthat I loved him and that I forgave him for, you know, whatever didn’t happen,” she said. “And I hope that he would forgive me for not being a better daughter. I got to say that to him.”
“He didn’t say anything. But he wept,” Fonda continued. “I had never seen that before. I’d never seen my father break down and weep. And I— it was, it was powerful.”
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Back in November 2022, Fonda told PEOPLE how she isn’t afraid of dying as she discussedtaking care of herself and her treatmentafter revealing she had beendiagnosed with a “very treatable” cancer, non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma, that September.
“I’ve lived a good life. I’ve lived a productive and intentional life,” she said. “And dying is part of life. I hope that I can be an example to young people so they won’t be afraid of getting older.”
“But you just have to take care of yourself, which I do even now,” explained Fonda, who is now in remission. “Even the days that I get chemo, I still do a workout. It’s slow and not what it used to be, but still, I’m moving and keeping strong.”
She also credited her family with motivating her to continue doingthe work as an activist, telling PEOPLE, “I just want my young grandchildren to know that grandma did her best.”
“It’s going to be rough for young people, and I just want my kids to know and my grandkids to know that I did my best,” she added.
New episodes ofWho’s Talking to Chris Wallace?are available Fridays on HBO Max and air Sundays at 7pm ET on CNN
source: people.com
