Matthew Lawrenceis opening up about his divorce fromCheryl Burke.TheBoy Meets Worldalum spoke on his split from theDancing with the Starsalum for the first time, admitting,“It tested me.““And I learned so much about myself, and I’m so thankful and blessed for the opportunity to grow and that’s what came out of it,” he toldEntertainment Tonight.Lawrence, 43, added on hisBrotherly Lovepodcast: “I ended up getting involved with people that I was trying to please. It never frickin' works.“Alberto E. Rodriguez/GettyLawrence and Burke, 38, tied the knot in 2019 and finalized their divorce in 2022. The pro dancer has been vocal about life after the split while Lawrence remained tight-lipped. “This is really opening up my life, which I feel like comes natural, but I also have to be okay to open up my heart,” she told PEOPLE after the split.“This is a really trying time for me right now in my life, and I think naturally what I tend to do is I tend to build a wall. And I am not attainable in that sense, but I think this is part of my work, is to let that guard down regardless of feelings and being able to be okay with that.“Cheryl Burke; Matthew Lawrence.David Livingston/FilmMagic, Jim Smeal/ShutterstockNever miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.The pair were also intended to head to trial over their shared dog, Ysabella. Burke officiallywon custody of the poochin January.Though Burke appears to be single, Lawrence has moved on. He’s been linked to TLC’sRozonda “Chilli” Thomassince January.Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty"Life is always a surprise,” Lawrence toldETof his relationship with the musician. “My life is in a complete bloom right now. I get to spend time withan amazing woman like Chilli. I’ve never gotten to be able to experience that kind of relationship before, so it’s quite special. She’s a really, really special human being. I wish more people on the planet were like her. We’d be much better off.”

Matthew Lawrenceis opening up about his divorce fromCheryl Burke.

TheBoy Meets Worldalum spoke on his split from theDancing with the Starsalum for the first time, admitting,“It tested me.”

“And I learned so much about myself, and I’m so thankful and blessed for the opportunity to grow and that’s what came out of it,” he toldEntertainment Tonight.

Lawrence, 43, added on hisBrotherly Lovepodcast: “I ended up getting involved with people that I was trying to please. It never frickin' works.”

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Matthew Lawrence and Cheryl Burke

Lawrence and Burke, 38, tied the knot in 2019 and finalized their divorce in 2022. The pro dancer has been vocal about life after the split while Lawrence remained tight-lipped. “This is really opening up my life, which I feel like comes natural, but I also have to be okay to open up my heart,” she told PEOPLE after the split.

“This is a really trying time for me right now in my life, and I think naturally what I tend to do is I tend to build a wall. And I am not attainable in that sense, but I think this is part of my work, is to let that guard down regardless of feelings and being able to be okay with that.”

Cheryl Burke; Matthew Lawrence.David Livingston/FilmMagic, Jim Smeal/Shutterstock

Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence

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The pair were also intended to head to trial over their shared dog, Ysabella. Burke officiallywon custody of the poochin January.

Though Burke appears to be single, Lawrence has moved on. He’s been linked to TLC’sRozonda “Chilli” Thomassince January.

Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence attend the RIDE Foundation’s 2nd Annual Dance For Freedon at gala The Broad Stage on September 29, 2018 in Santa Monica, California.

“Life is always a surprise,” Lawrence toldETof his relationship with the musician. “My life is in a complete bloom right now. I get to spend time withan amazing woman like Chilli. I’ve never gotten to be able to experience that kind of relationship before, so it’s quite special. She’s a really, really special human being. I wish more people on the planet were like her. We’d be much better off.”

source: people.com